Payment & Ordering

How to order on ABDL’sWish:

1. Browse our products and pick the ones your heart desires.
2. On each product page:
   1. If there is a variant selection, please choose the right one for you.
   2. Then, select the amount you want and click on the button to add it to your shopping cart.
3. After your ABDL shopping cart feels heavy enough, please click on your shopping cart in the menu. There’s a number next to it and I’ve heard it’s best if it’s high!
4. Take a look at your cart and make sure everything that you want is in there.
5. Then scroll down and select the country you want your order to be shipped to. The shipping costs will be shown.
6. Please enter all necessary details. We also dislike being forced to provide a phone numer or email for no reason in other shops, so you don’t need to provide those. If you provide your email, we will only contact you if it’s necessary to solve any issues. You shouldn’t expect any emails from us otherwise. We don’t send automated emails as most email providers will literally scan it and do questionable things with it. There’s no accounts and you will get your own order page link to track progress. Unlike other companies that deeply care about your privacy, we show this by design, not empty words.
7. Please select a payment option. You can change it later after your order has been submitted. You can pay after clicking the button to submit your order.
8. Once you've done that, you get your order id and get redirected to your order page. Make sure to safe your order id or link to your order page or make a bookmark as otherwise you won’t be able to track your order later. Your order will also be stored in your browser automatically.
9. Now you can click on the pay button and pay or change your payment method if you want to. Keep in mind that if you have already sent a direct bank transfer and before we confirm it, you change your payment method, we can no longer attribute it to your order. For direct bank transfer you must include the shown reference code (which looks like this: A-7408-9762-2648) in your bank transfer so that we know which order it belongs to.
10. After payment you will then see a tracking link for your delivery on your order page once it has been shipped.

If you see anything contrary to your expectations after reading this, please send us a quick note to so that we know that something went wrong.